Bring I AM Into The Bedroom - The Truth About Intimacy That Will Change Everything #iamwithhedley
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18 min video·en··999 views
Summary
The video explains that sex is a powerful alchemical process that, without conscious awareness of the infinite "I Am," accelerates division and separation from self, but with awareness and love, it can become a unifying force.
Key Points
- —The speaker introduces the concept of first, second, and third person (I Am, You, Reality) as essential for understanding the nature of awareness during sexual acts.
- —The video emphasizes that sex is a powerful and important alchemical process in life that demands full conscious awareness to prevent division.
- —Engaging in sex without conscious awareness of the "I Am" leads to accelerated division, attachment to the partner, and the manifestation of problems or "third parties" in one's reality.
- —The etymology of "sex" from the Latin "secare" (to divide or cut) reveals its inherent nature to create separation, from the initial division of oneness into male/female forms.
- —The "magic ingredient" to transform sex from a divider into a unifier is love, defined as conscious awareness and presence directed towards the infinite "I Am."
- —To ensure sex is a unifying and positive experience, one must give attention and reverence to the "I Am" (the source of all experience) both before and after the act.
- —This practice of tethering oneself to the "I Am" through awareness allows for self-unification, which is then positively reflected back through the partner, rather than seeking completion from them.
- —The concept of "marriage" before sex refers to an internal "marriage" with the "I Am," signifying a foundational relationship with self before engaging in powerful external acts.
- —Sex acts as an accelerator of awareness, meaning it intensifies one's current focus; if awareness is on the "third person" (the partner), it accelerates separation from the "self" (I Am).
- —Ultimately, bringing love and awareness to the "I Am" during sex is presented as a personal contribution to creating more unity in the world, rather than further division.
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